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A Demand for Vices
Who in the world, which sane person in the world will desire for lust; unending lust? Who shall desire intensely for Avarice; unending intense-insatiable Avarice? There is one being in this universe who is demanding both these vices with all sincerity and intensity. It is this sage who is known in the world by the name Goswami Tulsidas who is demanding these vices to appear in him. These are repulsive, reprehensible desires, any sane man shall retort back. But then Goswami Tulsidas is adamant, he only wants these desires to be satisfied. Nothing more, nothing less. We shall slowly remove the peels around these statements in the upcoming discussion.
Nature of Bhakti is similar to increase in desires
Many people believe that without expectation, without one’s eyes on the result, it is impossible to begin any kind of work, much contrary to the teachings of the Bhagavad Gita. Our Sanatana Dharma scriptures profess that unless there is total selflessness behind the work done, no work can be considered genuine and of the highest quality. So now the question is, what should be the motive behind work? Should there be any motive at all, is the question. Desire and Desirelessness are the two banks that separate the river of work or action. Lord Rama is the bridge, who connects these two banks with effortless ease. Lord Rama was born to King Dasharath because of his intense longing to have the Supreme Being as his son. So from one perspective Lord Rama is an epitome of intense desire. Desire represents the fulfillment of all the longings of our heart. Desires gain momentum when all our heart’s desires start getting fulfilled one by one. When there is such fulfillment, there is also an increase in our desires because now the heart yearns for more. It is now not enough for the heart to settle down with less. In some way this increase in earnestness is also the way Bhakti or devotion operates.
Goswami Tulsidas asks for Bhakti
After the creation of the scripture known as Ramcharita Manas, Goswami Tulsidas prayed to Lord Rama to grant him with pure devotion unto His Lotus feet. To this the Lord enquired “what type of Bhakti do you desire? Do you want Bhakti similar to that of my brother Bharath or similar to the one Laxmana has; or do you desire Bhakti as Hanuman has for me?” This made Goswami Tulsidas bow down humbly before the Lord. In a tone filled with humility and servility, Goswami Tulsidas said, “I do not deserve this type of elevated Bhakti. You have taken the names of elevated beings and I belong to the category of worms. How can I ever ask for such elevated form of Bhakti, that which I do not deserve?” The Lord then probed;” Tell me Tulsi, then what type of Bhakti do you desire? “To this Goswamiji replied,” Oh Lord give me that Bhakti which is similar to the attachment that a lusty man has towards the female clan.”
Where should be our insatiable lust directed to?
A lusty man worships beauty and has undying thirst to satisfy his senses by associating with women. Having associated with women, his thirst only picks up the next time round. Trying to satisfy the desire of a lusty man is like pouring clarified butter into fire in order to extinguish it. This is the nature of lust. Goswami Tulsidas argues that when you lust for a desirable object, such lust is always auspicious. How can the lust for the Supreme Being be inauspicious? Goswami Tulsidas enquires, Can’t the thirst for beauty be the thirst for the beautiful Lord? A desire or lust that has its destination, result, in the attainment of the Supreme Being can never be a wasteful desire. It is the highest desire that one can aspire for. A man who is behind desires can never be happy. This is what the scriptures proclaim. They also proclaim that such a man can never be contented. Similarly a lusty man’s lust goes to the next limit.
The Highest state of being as per Bhakti Dharma
It is also possible that lust may have an upper limit beyond which he cannot lust further. He does not have energy. Then what else could stretch the mirage of satisfaction to a much higher limit? Well, there is avarice which is even more stretched. Perhaps this is boundless, thinks the lusty man, who wishes to crave more. An avaricious man is never happy. He is like the blind, deep and dark well. You pour the entire wealth of the world inside this dark well of avarice, it is gobbled up without a trace, and the mouth of the well is open, gaping for more. According to Goswami Tulsidas, this is a good situation to be in; never contented, never satisfied. He prays to Lord Rama thus. Hence Goswami Tulsidas says, I wish to be avaricious, the most avaricious man who has unending avarice for the Supreme Being Lord Rama. Having lust for Rama and if lust is satisfied, then having greed for Lord Rama which is unending. When the negative traits of lust and avarice are applied to the divine object, the Lord, nothing can be considered more auspicious than such a state of being, discontented, longing for that insatiable happiness, longing for Sri Rama. This is the highest state of being as per the scriptures that are dedicated to Bhakti Dharma.
Desiring, the greatest virtue.
Whatever that leads to attachment, greed, lust, selfishness when applied positively in the direction of the Lord, is what man should learn in order to be relieved from the frailties of the world that binds him today. When one yearns for the Supreme Lord, one develops deep bonds with Him. As we desire for Him, as a direct reflection, the Lord too yearns and desires for us. A love-affair, if at all, has to be in relation with the Lord. There cannot be a better way to extend and express the love of our heart. Unless we direct this love towards the Supreme Personality, there can be no meaning to life. The heart of a materialistic man is sullied by the six vices that forms the dross of the mind. But when this dross is directed or aligned towards the Lord, this dross is immediately turned into nectar. This is the main teaching that Goswami Tulsidas wants to communicate although he uses negative qualities to highlight the greatness of the Bhakti process. This is a new way of branding Bhakti for generation next.